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10 Symptoms of caregiver stress

Alzheimer’s caregivers frequently report experiencing high levels of stress. It can be overwhelming to take care of a loved one with Alzheimer’s or other dementia, but too much stress can be harmful to both of you.

1. Denial about the disease and its effect on the person who has been diagnosed. I know Mom is going to get better.

2. Anger at the person with Alzheimer’s or frustration that he or she can’t do the things they used to be able to do.  He knows how to get dressed — he’s just being stubborn. 

3. Social withdrawal from friends and activities that used to make you feel good. I don’t care about visiting with the neighbours anymore.

4. Anxiety about the future and facing another day.  What happens when he needs more care than I can provide?

5. Depression that breaks your spirit and affects your ability to cope.  I just don’t care anymore.

6. Exhaustion that makes it nearly impossible to complete necessary daily tasks. I’m too tired for this.

7. Sleeplessness caused by a never-ending list of concerns. What if she wanders out of the house or falls and hurts herself?

8. Irritability that leads to moodiness and triggers negative responses and actions. Leave me alone!

9. Lack of concentration that makes it difficult to perform familiar tasks. I was so busy, I forgot my appointment.

10. Health problems that begin to take a mental and physical toll. I can’t remember the last time I felt good.

If you experience any of these signs of stress on a regular basis, make time to talk to your doctor.

*Brenthurst Residence hosts a Dementia Care Support Group, which is open to all and meets at 15h00 on the first Wednesday of every month, in the Brenthurst Residence lounge.

Blog courtesy of the Alzheimer’s and Dementia Caregiver Centre SA. www.


On the 21st of September, people across the globe will observe World Alzheimer’s Day in remembrance of those who suffer from this debilitating disease. As dementia progresses, the person will become increasingly less able to look after themselves – but this does not mean their life has come to an end. Approximately 24 million people suffer from dementia worldwide; learning how to care for them is crucial.

Whether you choose to care for your ailed family member yourself or place them in the charge of a caregiver or home, a key element of their well-being is simply not to be forgotten. Regardless of how frequently the elder is lucid, they need the love and support of their family and friends. Whichever avenue of care you choose, the key is to ensure your loved one is in good hands.

“Caring for someone with memory loss, confusion, restlessness and anxiety – all components of changes in the brain that is no longer able to receive or interpret signals – is not for the weak-hearted. It takes deep fortitude and strength of spirit,” says Matron Painter of the Brenthurst Residence.

As the elder’s ability to communicate falters, Matron Painter believes their behaviour becomes their language. “Gauging behaviour with this understanding can offer vital clues for managing their care. We can’t simply write off odd actions as being due to memory loss. Should we not rather consider what they may need, and in filling that need, reset their behaviour?”

Let us not forget that this person, even in their diminished mental capacity, is still a person. They lived a full life, had meaningful relationships, and shared their intelligence with the world for many decades. “When you view the elder as a person, as someone who was and still is an ‘Elder Resource’, you realise that they still have many gifts to give,” states Matron Painter.

When considering whether a care home is the right place for your loved one, question whether they focus on memory stimulating activities and what steps are taken to ensure the residents are comfortable and cared for. “We make special allowances, such as allowing couples to stay together at the home when one is suffering from dementia,” says Painter. “This helps the resident feel comforted and safe, while their partner gets the help they need to care for them, without having to live apart.”

The staff at the Brenthurst Residence passionately care for the aged, ensuring that their lives are still made worth living, helping them to fight off loneliness, helplessness and boredom. “When this is achieved, it goes a long way towards drastically improving their lives, alleviating the scariest and most frustrating elements of ageing and dementia,” she adds.

Family support is also incredibly important, and a vital element in keeping the family involved in the resident’s life. As such, Brenthurst Residence hosts a monthly *Dementia Care Support Group for family members and the community at large. The focus of this Group is to provide family and friends with vital tools needed to care for a loved one dealing with Dementia.

“When you see the elder’s eyes light up when something is triggered in the deepest recesses of their minds; when you realise that they are still alive inside, caring for them with love, patience and gentleness is a calling that must be answered,” concludes Painter.

For more information on dementia care, visit or contact Matron Painter at

*The Dementia Care Support Group is open to all and meets at 15h00 on the first Wednesday of every month, in the Brenthurst Residence lounge.

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Our Vision is to:

“Provide an exclusive, Christian, “Home-away-from-Home” for the Nursing Needs and Care of discerning elderly.

Our Mission is to:

  • excel at providing individualized care by trained and professional nursing staff.
  • To enhance our clients’ lives by respectfully attending to their physical, mental, emotional and spiritual needs.
  • While creating an atmosphere conducive to client and family satisfaction,
  • Our further desire is to enhance our employees’ lives through in-service training and maintaining Biblical values.”




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